Friday, August 20, 2010

What's the next step in a teenage relationship?

My boyfriend and I have just started going out, and we were talking about ';how far'; we would go together. I said probably just hooking up, but he said why not the next step? What is the next step? HahaWhat's the next step in a teenage relationship?
he wants to have sex sheesh what an AholeWhat's the next step in a teenage relationship?
The next step is taking things to a physical level. Please make sure that you are ready, both mentally, and with protection if you plan on having intercourse with him. Keep in mind that it does not matter how clean he says he is, he may not be. If you are mentally ready for this step, atleast be an advocate for your own health and saftey and make him wear a condom, you can get them for free at teen health clinics everywhere. Also keep in mind that if you make this step, you are going to have to get regular pap smears and be honest with your doctor about what you are doing, they can not tell your parents. Please do not let this boy talk you into anything that you are not ready for though.
going steady, he is thinking about sex. but dont rush into it unless you have already lost your V-card, and your ready to share that with him. becuase if your not and he hurts you or he is your first then you will be even more hurt then you thought. you dont have to have sex, you can make out, and do maybe oral, but you dont have to go that far, or you can just dry hump haha. but its the truth, if your not ready for sex witch idk if you are or not. but sex is not the next step if you have just been dating for alittle while. you should wait for all that till you know your going to be spending alot of time with him, becuase if he is already saying ohh well what about the next step, then he is in it for a piece, and its not worth your hurt feelings. but idk he might be a good person and just want to have sex with you but who knows.





hope this helps.
don't drop him just yet...


you said just hooking up


that term is so vague.


he could be thinking you just mean making out.


he could mean having sex.


he could mean something else.


communicate. clarify.


then see if he's still the guy you think he is.
i wouldnt go any further than ditching that d-bag, who obviously wants your ';next step'; to be in bed with him.
NExt step going steady

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