Sunday, August 22, 2010

Can a teenage girl handle a army boyfriend going away to iraq?

Some can some can't - there are no generalizations in situations like this.Can a teenage girl handle a army boyfriend going away to iraq?
It really has nothing to do with either parties age. It has to do with the amount of love and general strength of the relationship. Things happen. My ex-fiance and I were together for 5 years when he left to Iraq. Before he left, everyone thought we were gonna make it. And we did. For a little while. Then things started happening. I heard from him less, emails got shorter, etc. Then, out of the blue he called me at 2:30 in the morning. One month before he was due home for midtour and our wedding. He cleared out my account, his account, our joint account and left me with $60 dollars two days before rent was due as well as all the rest of our bills that quickly became mine. It has nothing to do with age of you or him. It has to do with how strong you're relationship is and if you have a strong network of people to help you through the deployment. If you two are strong as a couple and you are strong as person you might be okay. But any couple that gets seperated due to a deployment gets a thumbs up and huge wish of good luck from me. If you two are meant to be, you'll make it. If not, deployment or not, you'll find out.





Love knows no boundaries of time or distance. If you two really love each other and are strong enough in love, a deployment should not seperate you.





Either way, good luck.Can a teenage girl handle a army boyfriend going away to iraq?
Yes, if she faithful, writes him to let him know she Love's him and tells him that he has something to look forward to when he gets HOME. Writing a solider, Marine, Airman, or Sailor when they are in harms way is a great thing for their morale.
its really a choice you make to stay by his side wether he is in iraq or not but realistically and being that i was just in this situation but she was older you will end up leaving him and even if you stay it will be to hard to stay faithfull
Probably not. A year or more apart in a relationship is pretty much a lifetime to your average teenage girl.





There's a reason most high school relationships end when the couple goes off to college.
It depends ... Some girls can, and some girls can't. A good support network goes a long way though. If you want to talk, feel free to e-mail
It is dependant on the girl - not on the age.


I've seen 30 year olds freak out and 18 year olds handle it well.





Hon - I hope you can do it!
how old is she how old is he? it depends on the age and maturity that she is 12 nope 13 nope had to be 17 or so.
It depends on the person some girls are more dependent then others.
Probably not. Its best you break up before he leaves, keep in touch while he is away and see if you can make it work when he gets home.
nope....won't last
yep, as soon as she gets a new boyfriend

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