because shes a teenager (as i am)
she doesnt want to be dictated by you
because she wants her own responsabilities.
all you can do is advice her - you can tell her once
and even though you might think its going in one ear and out the other its not, she will remember it. And when her money goes missing, she will have your 'told you so' running through her mind.
this is possibly a mistake she needs to make to understand.
She doesnt seem silly to be taking drugs with her - and im sure youve made it quite clear with her growing up the effect they have in order that she will not be interested.
soon she will get sick of all this
and know you were right
be there for her
but if you ban her from seeing him etc
it will make it worse because she wont want to talk to you about things
just make it clear you are there and are willing to help when she finally realises shes making a mistake :)
good luckMy teenage daughter goes out with someone who takes drugs?
Im a teenager as well,and i chill with people who do drugs.you cant choose who her friends are,so youll just have to trust your daughter.if you tell her she cant hang out with him,its just going to make her mad-and want to disobey you.you need to have a mutual respect going on with you and your daughter.If my mom respected me,I would respect her-and not want to go against her.If you treat her like a baby,shes not going to listen to you.Just tell her you trust her to make the right decisions,and thats all you can pretty much do
oooo thats not good.....i'll tell you. im 17 and a half and i just broke up with a boyfriend who was 21 and used drugs. the SECOND i found out he was involved with that stuff i left. its just NOT safe for her
i would ask her questions about it, but dont seem like your probing....just ask casually...but lets be serious. your the mom, and therfore you have total control of the situation.....i am not a fan of controlling parents, and it seems like you arent either but this is NOT considered being a wacko parent......she is in a dangerous situation, and this dude is pretty sketchy....you could provide her with an ultimatum and say if you dont talk to me about this guy you wont go out with him at all....so its either answer my questions, or stay home......at that point she will most likely talk to you
although, if i were you i would get her away from this guy before she gets hurt.....and theres a large probobility that she will get hurt.
this is NOT a healthy relationship.....especially if he;s taking her money. i would end it
she might not know whats good for her because shes so young, if youve tried talking, laying down the law, and showing her that its only going to hurt her; then try explaining that if her money keeps getting ';lost'; you wont give her anymore allowance if she can't be responsible. if she doesnt respond to that then tell her that if she doesnt break it off you'll kick her out the house.
she'll probably get the hint. :D
Well if u believe in God pray to God to help you with the situation with your daughter, because God is the all hearing the all knowing he is aware of all things!!!!!!!!! true:)
So ask him to help her listen to you, then try to talk to ur daughter and if God accepts ur prayer she will listen to you and hopefully it will be an easy task.
I know exactly what ur going through..my 19 Year old daughter was in a similar relationship,i talked to her and eventually she seen sense..she hated me talking about him cos ';he was the one';but after numerous times of him treating her poo she got rid.
I agree with Bounty in some respect cos my hubby was going to pay hm a lil ';Visit'; but my daughter persuaded him not too.
But my hubby has vowed ';He will get him';
I know it might not seem like they'll finish but bare with it,she'll see sense trust me.
the best thing could be to sit her down and ask her few questions like where does she go out with him and what happens down there.....after those questions ask her how does hs ethink she lost her money...........now u have discussed about that u might wanna ask her if there is anything odd about her relationship with her and her boyfriend and thern eventually u can do all the talking of saying that it makes you feel odd and upset that she goes out with a drug person.
fingers crossed hope this works
:o)
You're the parent, put a stop to it...or let her get hurt and learn her life lessons herself.
What risks is she putting herself in by dating a user? Does she ride in a car with him when he's been using? Does he run with a rough crowd that could be potentially harmful to her? How old is she? Perhaps you should talk to his parents about the situation and they can deal with their son...
You didn't give much info, but bottom line is you are the parent and you call the shots on who she can date or associate with.
You cannot, you have voiced your concerns, so just be there for her when it all comes crashing down, and have faith in her that she will not go down that route. most of us get hurt at some point in out lives, and you cannot always protect them from it. its part of life's lessons.
Look for signs that she's using drugs.
Attitude and being sassy happens to all teenagers it's quite normal.
Research about the drug the he uses to find out what happens when the drug is used.
I think you need to just lay off on her a little bit. If you have told her that multipule times, she knows what might happen, and is very protective off her self. Don't talk to her. Its for the best.
i think you should tell her you think he';s really cute. keep telling her that if you was younger you would love to go out with a great looking bloke like him! that';ll do it. take care. Lee.
explain to her the dangers of her going out with this guy and try to get her to stay away from him.do you think she does drugs because of her bf?
if shes just smoking pot dont hassle her about it but if its any thing else dont let her see him any more. and thats the truth.
I guess you could turn into mommy dearest and be mean, but then she might hate you
no wire hangers
Don't talk too her...get some info on who the fella is and send some of the big boys after him
Hope that helped :-D
How old is she over 18 or under 18? I am under 18 I had a friend who did drugs but I did not you are the parent and if she is under 18 you can drug test her!!
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